Husband Convicted of Murdering Wife Despite Her Desperate Pleas for Help

CHESAPEAKE, VA – In a tragic turn of events, the life of Kathryn Dean came to a heartbreaking end in April 2022. After filing a protective order affidavit outlining threats made against her life, Kathryn was found dead in her home in Chesapeake, Virginia. Her husband of three years, Ben Wynkoop, was arrested in connection with her murder. In June of 2023, Wynkoop was convicted of second-degree murder, use of a firearm in the commission of a murder, armed burglary, and the violation of a protective order.

Leading up to the trial, Wynkoop pleaded not guilty to the charges and claimed self-defense, alleging that he shot Kathryn in response to what he believed was a threat from her. However, Kathryn’s family members revealed a harrowing history of abuse and threats she had faced at the hands of Wynkoop. According to them, she had sought legal protection from him just two weeks before her death, as she tried desperately to escape his harassment and violence.

Scripps News Norfolk uncovered a series of written complaints by Kathryn, detailing instances of violence and threats against her life at the hands of her husband. Her daughter, Katelyn Dean, emphasized the fear and helplessness her mother experienced, despite her efforts to seek help for the abuse.

On November 27, Wynkoop is set to be sentenced, and Kathryn’s family is seeking the maximum penalty for him. They remember Kathryn as a caring and selfless individual, known for her compassion and strength. For her loved ones, the pain of losing her to domestic violence is a reminder of the urgent need for better protection and support for victims.

In the end, the tragic death of Kathryn Dean serves as a sobering reminder of the devastating impact of domestic violence. Her family’s plea for justice reflects the desperation for accountability and reform in addressing the systemic challenges that victims of domestic abuse face.